Eighteen Years – Remembering Barbara

The earthly remains of my sister, Barbara have been inside that box since December 30, 2007. That is 18 years. So much in the world as we know it has changed. Her daughter is now grown with children of her own. Four children two boys two girls. One of the girls looks exactly like her grandmother.
Yet, Barbara never met them in the physical world. Another interesting bit of information is Barbara died not knowing that her “real” middle name was Joyce. That is very Signiant in my life and would have been in hers. We had an “aunt” Joyce. Joyce though not related was the kind of woman who helped to shape us both as young women. Helped us to stand up, speak up and remember that life isn’t about money, but it is about relationships. It is about service to others and living a life to which Christ shines through.
My own children are grown and on their own. One having made horrible stupid decisions whereas the other is active-duty army stationed near the place he grew up.
In the case of my oldest son the only reason I know what he looks like is the mug shot online with the S** Offender registry of Baltimore, MD. To be frank I wouldn’t recognize him if I passed him on the street. He looks homeless. I haven’t seen him since 2019. Please understand my love for him has and will not change.
In closing, Thank you Lord for my sister. Let me be ever mindful of how I represent you. Please continue to bless Barbara’s daughter and grandchildren. Be a guiding light of love in their lives.
In Jesus name,
“May the Lord bless and keep you, may he
make his face shine upon you, and give you his peace”
Until next time,
Stamp happy and be a blessing



